Tuesday, October 31, 2006

I am cultured

We went to the Ballet or as i pronounce it (ballot) on Sat nite. It was the first time that both my wife and i have been to a ballet. The name of the Ballet was Giselle and its about a peasant girl who falls in love with a prince, the prince in the meantime is supposed to get married to a princess and the peasant girl finds out. When she finds out she becomes all demented and dies. Then the prince goes to the grave and dances with this girl who is now a ghost. (ok ppl just google it)
It was very nice i must say, we both totally enjoyed it, it was something different. I felt so cultured afterwards, wen i came home i couldnt wait to do double pirouettes (ok for those of u uncultured ppl its a ballet move) in the passage, my daughter found it absolutely hilarious and couldnt stop laughing. It was so colourful and wen the ballerinas done moves in unison it was beautiful. We gona try and go at least once a month to the theatre. My ultimate goal is to be able to do the flying double pirouette flying slipper kick. I want to fuse my kung fu skills with ballet. LOL
I am cultured ha

Thursday, October 26, 2006

Eid Day

I really enjoyed eid day, spending time with friends and family. Getting up early, going to Eid Salaah with friends, good talk, socialising after eid salaah. It was a long day driving from one place to the other. The star of the day was Nafeesa. Weeks before eid her outfit was being prepared from the shoes to bags to socks. She really looked like a princess and everyone wanted to carry her and take pics. She actually forgot us as she was too busy entertaining people and moving from one arm to the other. Hope everyone had a really lovely day as well. Take a look at the pics

The Bag
The Accesories


The Dress The Shoes


The Princess

Smiling for the Camera
The Queen and Princess


The Day After

Monday, October 23, 2006

EID Mubarak

Tomorrow is Eid Yippeeeeeeeeee

Eid Mubarak from myself and my family to one and all, hope u have a wonderful day and that all ur good deeds are accepted by ALLAH.

Friday, October 20, 2006

Perfect Combination

It was beautiful hot day and we decided to break our fast outside on the grass by the beachfront. It was really nice, delicious food courtesy of the wifey, warm breeze and a beautiful sunset. We stayed till late in the evening and then enjoyed some coffee afterwards with a frend. Hope to do it soon again, it was a change from the normal routine. Really enjoyed it, Thanks Zarina ;)

Nafeesa all hot and flustered, but she still tooooo cute


It was a spur of the moment thing, as u can see all the food in the box with Nafeesa looking on


My beautiful gorgeous pretty wife and my little princess.
Who dat sexy guy, just a pose, practising for my future modelling career


The lovely sunset to go with the scrumptious meal. Perfect combination; Family, food and scenery. Ha!!!

Wednesday, October 18, 2006

I am an African

I know this is a long post to read, but do take the time to read it. This is a speech given by our president Thabo Mbeki and i think it encapsulates what we all as South Africans should feel. I love this speech

I am an African. I owe by being to the hills and the valleys, the mountains and the glades, the rivers, the deserts, the trees, the flowers, the seas and the ever-changing seasons that define the face of our native land. My body has frozen in our frosts and in our latter day snows. It has thawed in the warmth of our sunshine and melted in the heat of the midday sun. The crack and the rumble of the summer thunders, lashed by startling lightening, have been a cause both of trembling and of hope. The fragrances of nature have been as pleasant to us as the sight of the wild blooms of the citizens of the veld. The dramatic shapes of the Drakensberg, the soil-coloured waters of the Lekoa, iGqili noThukela, and the sands of the Kgalagadi, have all been panels of the set on the natural stage on which we act out the foolish deeds of the theatre of our day. At times, and in fear, I have wondered whether I should concede equal citizenship of our country to the leopard and the lion, the elephant and the springbok, the hyena, the black mamba and the pestilential mosquito. A human presence among all these, a feature on the face of our native land thus defined, I know that none dare challenge me when I say - I am an African! I owe my being to the Khoi and the San whose desolate souls haunt the great expanses of the beautiful Cape - they who fell victim to the most merciless genocide our native land has ever seen, they who were the first to lose their lives in the struggle to defend our freedom and dependence and they who, as a people, perished in the result. Today, as a country, we keep an audible silence about these ancestors of the generations that live, fearful to admit the horror of a former deed, seeking to obliterate from our memories a cruel occurrence which, in its remembering, should teach us not and never to be inhuman again. I am formed of the migrants who left Europe to find a new home on our native land. Whatever their own actions, they remain still, part of me. In my veins courses the blood of the Malay slaves who came from the East. Their proud dignity informs my bearing, their culture a part of my essence. The stripes they bore on their bodies from the lash of the slave master are a reminder embossed on my consciousness of what should not be done. I am the grandchild of the warrior men and women that Hintsa and Sekhukhune led, the patriots that Cetshwayo and Mphephu took to battle, the soldiers Moshoeshoe and Ngungunyane taught never to dishonour the cause of freedom. My mind and my knowledge of myself is formed by the victories that are the jewels in our African crown, the victories we earned from Isandhlwana to Khartoum, as Ethiopians and as the Ashanti of Ghana, as the Berbers of the desert. I am the grandchild who lays fresh flowers on the Boer graves at St Helena and the Bahamas, who sees in the mind's eye and suffers the suffering of a simple peasant folk, death, concentration camps, destroyed homesteads, a dream in ruins. I am the child of Nongqause. I am he who made it possible to trade in the world markets in diamonds, in gold, in the same food for which my stomach yearns. I come of those who were transported from India and China, whose being resided in the fact, solely, that they were able to provide physical labour, who taught me that we could both be at home and be foreign, who taught me that human existence itself demanded that freedom was a necessary condition for that human existence. Being part of all these people, and in the knowledge that none dare contest that assertion, I shall claim that - I am an African. I have seen our country torn asunder as these, all of whom are my people, engaged one another in a titanic battle, the one redress a wrong that had been caused by one to another and the other, to defend the indefensible. I have seen what happens when one person has superiority of force over another, when the stronger appropriate to themselves the prerogative even to annul the injunction that God created all men and women in His image. I know what if signifies when race and colour are used to determine who is human and who, sub-human. I have seen the destruction of all sense of self-esteem, the consequent striving to be what one is not, simply to acquire some of the benefits which those who had improved themselves as masters had ensured that they enjoy. I have experience of the situation in which race and colour is used to enrich some and impoverish the rest. I have seen the corruption of minds and souls as (word not readable) of the pursuit of an ignoble effort to perpetrate a veritable crime against humanity. I have seen concrete expression of the denial of the dignity of a human being emanating from the conscious, systemic and systematic oppressive and repressive activities of other human beings. There the victims parade with no mask to hide the brutish reality - the beggars, the prostitutes, the street children, those who seek solace in substance abuse, those who have to steal to assuage hunger, those who have to lose their sanity because to be sane is to invite pain. Perhaps the worst among these, who are my people, are those who have learnt to kill for a wage. To these the extent of death is directly proportional to their personal welfare. And so, like pawns in the service of demented souls, they kill in furtherance of the political violence in KwaZulu-Natal. They murder the innocent in the taxi wars. They kill slowly or quickly in order to make profits from the illegal trade in narcotics. They are available for hire when husband wants to murder wife and wife, husband. Among us prowl the products of our immoral and amoral past - killers who have no sense of the worth of human life, rapists who have absolute disdain for the women of our country, animals who would seek to benefit from the vulnerability of the children, the disabled and the old, the rapacious who brook no obstacle in their quest for self-enrichment. All this I know and know to be true because I am an African! Because of that, I am also able to state this fundamental truth that I am born of a people who are heroes and heroines. I am born of a people who would not tolerate oppression. I am of a nation that would not allow that fear of death, torture, imprisonment, exile or persecution should result in the perpetuation of injustice. The great masses who are our mother and father will not permit that the behaviour of the few results in the description of our country and people as barbaric. Patient because history is on their side, these masses do not despair because today the weather is bad. Nor do they turn triumphalist when, tomorrow, the sun shines. Whatever the circumstances they have lived through and because of that experience, they are determined to define for themselves who they are and who they should be. We are assembled here today to mark their victory in acquiring and exercising their right to formulate their own definition of what it means to be African. The constitution whose adoption we celebrate constitutes and unequivocal statement that we refuse to accept that our Africanness shall be defined by our race, colour, gender of historical origins. It is a firm assertion made by ourselves that South Africa belongs to all who live in it, black and white. It gives concrete expression to the sentiment we share as Africans, and will defend to the death, that the people shall govern. It recognises the fact that the dignity of the individual is both an objective which society must pursue, and is a goal which cannot be separated from the material well-being of that individual. It seeks to create the situation in which all our people shall be free from fear, including the fear of the oppression of one national group by another, the fear of the disempowerment of one social echelon by another, the fear of the use of state power to deny anybody their fundamental human rights and the fear of tyranny. It aims to open the doors so that those who were disadvantaged can assume their place in society as equals with their fellow human beings without regard to colour, race, gender, age or geographic dispersal. It provides the opportunity to enable each one and all to state their views, promote them, strive for their implementation in the process of governance without fear that a contrary view will be met with repression. It creates a law-governed society which shall be inimical to arbitrary rule. It enables the resolution of conflicts by peaceful means rather than resort to force. It rejoices in the diversity of our people and creates the space for all of us voluntarily to define ourselves as one people. As an African, this is an achievement of which I am proud, proud without reservation and proud without any feeling of conceit. Our sense of elevation at this moment also derives from the fact that this magnificent product is the unique creation of African hands and African minds. Bit it is also constitutes a tribute to our loss of vanity that we could, despite the temptation to treat ourselves as an exceptional fragment of humanity, draw on the accumulated experience and wisdom of all humankind, to define for ourselves what we want to be. Together with the best in the world, we too are prone to pettiness, petulance, selfishness and short-sightedness. But it seems to have happened that we looked at ourselves and said the time had come that we make a super-human effort to be other than human, to respond to the call to create for ourselves a glorious future, to remind ourselves of the Latin saying: Gloria est consequenda - Glory must be sought after! Today it feels good to be an African. It feels good that I can stand here as a South African and as a foot soldier of a titanic African army, the African National Congress, to say to all the parties represented here, to the millions who made an input into the processes we are concluding, to our outstanding compatriots who have presided over the birth of our founding document, to the negotiators who pitted their wits one against the other, to the unseen stars who shone unseen as the management and administration of the Constitutional Assembly, the advisers, experts and publicists, to the mass communication media, to our friends across the globe - congratulations and well done! I am an African. I am born of the peoples of the continent of Africa. The pain of the violent conflict that the peoples of Liberia, Somalia, the Sudan, Burundi and Algeria is a pain I also bear. The dismal shame of poverty, suffering and human degradation of my continent is a blight that we share. The blight on our happiness that derives from this and from our drift to the periphery of the ordering of human affairs leaves us in a persistent shadow of despair. This is a savage road to which nobody should be condemned. This thing that we have done today, in this small corner of a great continent that has contributed so decisively to the evolution of humanity says that Africa reaffirms that she is continuing her rise from the ashes. Whatever the setbacks of the moment, nothing can stop us now! Whatever the difficulties, Africa shall be at peace! However improbable it may sound to the sceptics, Africa will prosper! Whoever we may be, whatever our immediate interest, however much we carry baggage from our past, however much we have been caught by the fashion of cynicism and loss of faith in the capacity of the people, let us err today and say - nothing can stop us now!

Monday, October 16, 2006

Chechen Anthem

I was reading an article on the web about Chechnya and i came across their National Anthem. They are quite a remarkable people full of history and culture. I have always had an interest in chechnya with regards to the war going on there and also the stories of the previous generations such as Imam Shamil who was a great mujahid and personality. In his first speech to the Chechen people, the late General Joher Dudayev, Chechnya’s first president, expressed his people’s belief that “the slave who accepts the yokes of slavery deserves double the pain of slavery!” I really enjoyed the words of the anthem as it describes how this people embraces the notions of freedom, bravery, love of life, religiousness and self-esteem. Hope u njoy it as much as i did.

Death or Freedom

We were born at night when the she-wolf whelped.
In the morning, to lion's deafening roar were named.
In eagles' nests our mothers nursed us,To tame wild bulls our fathers taught us.
There are no gods save Allah.

Our mothers raised us to dedicate ourselves to our sacred land,
And if they need us we're ready to fight the oppressive hand.
We were born and grew up free as the mountain eagles,
With dignity, and honour we always overcome hardship and obstacles.
There are no gods save Allah.

Granite rocks will sooner fuse like lead,
Than we will lose our honour in life's struggles.
Earth will sooner be swallowed up by the broiling sun,
Than we emerge from a trial in life without our honour!
There are no gods save Allah.

Never will we submit and become slaves,
Death or freedom, for us there's only one way.
Our sister's songs will cure our wounds,
Our beloved's' eyes will supply the strength of arms.
There are no gods save Allah.

If hunger weaken us, we'll gnaw on roots,
And if thirst debilitates us, we'll drink dew,
For we were born at night when the she-wolf whelped.
God, Nation and Vainakh homeland.

May ALLAh assist all mujahideen fighting for the deen of Islam



This is the out of bed look, my little princess after a bath. I just had to post this pic its toooooo cute

Thursday, October 12, 2006

Moderation

Its amazing how conditioned our bodies become in Ramadaan. Like for instance i did not get up this morning for Suhoor, it is 7 hrs later and i am not feeling hungry at all. If it was not ramadaan and i did not have breakfast at home which is usually much later than Suhoor i would be starving by now. I feel like i just ate something just now when in actual fact the last i ate was last nite. (Oh by the way my wife made me lovely spaghetti bolognaise with garlic bread for supper last nite DAMN) She can make some mean pastas and pizzas. Oh by the way we hoping to break our fast on the beach this weekend, hope the weather keeps up and she is making her mean pizzas mmmmmm cant wait. Ok back to the topic ;), It just shows how we eat unnecessary. We can program our bodies to eat as little as possible but nooooooo we must be greedy and stuff ourselves. Im as guilty. I guess thats one of the lessons of Ramadaan, to learn moderation and realise that we dont need to eat 2 apples when in actual fact we only need 1. So we can eat one apple and give the other apple away.
Princess Nafeesa had an eye infection and we were so worried abt it, but Alhamdulillah we got some ointment for it and it seems to have gotten better. Its weird that the smallest thing that happens to ur child makes u worry so much. She has so much patience.
I hope u understood what i was trying to say cause u know somtimes i can be incoherent ;)

Friday, October 06, 2006

My Cats

They say "Cats have slaves and not owners" Well we have 3 cats and we are definitely their slaves. These animals are so amazing they are like little humans, and they have their own unique personalities. I never ever thought that i would love my cats so much, before i was married i liked cats but neva had one as my mother freeks out for them. My wife absolutley adores cats, she had like cats all her life. SO when we moved on our own we got "Poppy" and a few months later i was at the petrol station and i saw this little grey cat running around and instantly i knew i had to have him. I eventually found out that he belonged to a vagrant, i asked the vagrant if he did not want to give me the cat and he said yes please take the cat because he cant afford to feed the cat. We named this cat "Zebula" And few months later Poppy became pregnant and then we had "Baby" So thats how we ended up with three cats.

Zebula striking a pose, he is a real tomcat. His always fighting with other cats, running around, sitting on the walls but he is the most affectionate of the three. He has a truly unique cat personality. Oh and he can throw tantrums, if u shout him he will do something u will regret like push over a water jug. I have to give him a head massage every day, he loves it. My wife absolutely adores him
This is mother (Poppy) and daughter (Baby). Poppy is like an aristocrat cat, she is very proper in the way she walks, the way she sits, the way she sleeps. Its like she went to etiquette school. I always imagine that she was a British royal in her previous life drinking tea out of rose tea cups. She is not very affectionate and likes to be left alone. But she is absolutely soft, has like the softest fur eva. She is my favourite.
Baby is the naughtiest of the lot, doesnt like affection like her mother and learns all the tricks from Zebula. Zebula and baby chill togetha and they catch on all the nonsense together. She is not scared of anything, doesnt listen wen u shout her, and she is stubborn but she cute lol

Baby loves sleeping by Nafeesah, she gets into the cot with her and they sleep together. Nafeesa loves the cats, she gets so excited when she sees them and she will like pull their fur. And no cats are not jealous of babies and they are not dangerous around them.
The three of them takin over our bed, wat can we do they rule our lives. We go into the supermarket and the first thing we buy is cat food, its amazing how attached u get to these animals.

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Well y do people send pics like this in the month of Ramadaan, Innie Saaim!!!!!!!! Now all i can think is where can i get that cake, my brain is racing trying to think of all the places that might sell this cake, by the way its a chocolate mousse cake. They even sent the recipe but where am i gona have the time or skill to make this cake. Where can i get a slice like this, damn ppl who sent it. For those interested find the recipe below, well make the cake and send me pics of it, i will judge whose is the best and ul win a secret prize ha ha.

Ingredients
4 large eggs
130g flour
30g cocoa
200g sugar
15ml baking powder
125ml oil
125ml water
5ml vanilla

Preheat oven to 180*C. Line two 22cm springform cake tins and spray with cooking spray.

Separate eggs, placing whites in clean large mixing bowl. Place egg yolks in a small bowl. In another clean bowl, sift all dry ingredients. Add oil, water and vanilla. Beat for 2min. Add egg yolks and beat for a further 2min. Whip egg whites until stiff and fold into chocolate batter with a spatula. Pour I to cake tins and bake for 20-25min or until firm to the touch and a skewer comes out clean.

Cocoa Cream
250ml cream
15ml cocoa
20ml icing sugar

Place cream in clean bowl. Sift icing sugar and cocoa over. Whip cream until stiff.

Chocolate Mousse Filling
200g dark chocolate
75ml milk
12,5ml gelatine
25ml wate
4 eggs seperate
5ml vanilla
250ml cream

Break chocolate into a bowl. Melt chocolate over simmering water. Do not stir until chocolate has completely softened. Test with tip of teaspoon. Stir in milk. Meanwhile, sprinkle gelatine over water. Microwave on medium until gelatine is just melted. Add to chocolate, stirring as you do this. Beat egg yolks until pale yellow. Pour in chocolate and Beat in vanilla. Beat cream until stiff. Beat egg whites until stiff but not dry. Add both to chocolate mixture and fold in gently with a spatula. Refrigerate for 10min.

Line the base of one of the baking tins with baking paper. Place a cake layer in the baking tin and spread with mousse. Then place a layer of cake on top. Then spread with a layer of cream. Top with cake, then mouse then cream. End off with cake. Place in fridge for at least 3-4hrs and allow mousse to set.

Chocolate Ganache
200g dark chocolate
155g tin nestles cream

Melt chocolate with cream over low heat. Allow to cool slightly, then pour over cake.
Decorate with rose petals and chocolate curls.

Monday, October 02, 2006

Table Mountain






Cape Town will not be Cape Town without Table Mountain. This is the most famous landmark here. Its this huge mountain smack bang in the middle of the city, imagine the whole of cape town is flat and all of a sudden you see this huge mountain in the middle of the city. Its named like this cause the top of the mountain is flat like a table. When there is cloud cover it looks like a table cloth over the mountain. This mountain is absolutely gorgeous, it makes me feel at home, if i am gone somewhere away from cape town i miss my mountain. And when i come back and i see the mountain i know im home. Like they say home is where the heart is. There are indeginous plants known as fynbos growing on the mountain but please do not smoke this shit, it makes u crazy LOL.People from other parts of South Africa always make fun of us capetonians cause of our attachment to the mountain. They dont understand that we see the mountain everyday of our lives, wen i get outside of my house i see the mountain, wen i go to work i drive alongside the mountain, wen im at work i can see it from my window, so it is as part of me as my family. U can go up the mountain via a cable car or u can hike up. The views are absolutely magnificent, u can even watch the sunset from there weather permitting. If u come to cape town and u dont visit the mountain its like having a cheese sandwich without cheese. I will definitely post more pics, just wetting ur tastebuds.

In the meantime visit this link, it has some awesom pics, u just have to take look http://www.tablemountain.net/gallery/